Neither a borrower nor a lender be?
December 10, 2010
Do you lend your personal books out to friends?
Do you despair when the books are never returned?
Do you forget who you’ve lent them out to?
Do you have a no-lend policy?
When I was a child, under 10, I used to play libraries.
I know, pathetic really.
I labelled my books with the letter of the author on the spine. I made little pockets for little cards that could be stamped with the date of the library book loan (just like the books from the Sunshine Library).
The only difference between a real library and me was that I never actually let my books be loaned out. It wasn’t so much that I didn’t trust the kids I was playing with (i don’t know how I roped them into that game) but that i had so few books I was scared of losing them. Which may account for why, as an adult, I have a couple of bookcases double-loaded with books. As for loaning out my books — I do, but it depends on:
a) who the person is
b) what the book is
c) if I can ever replace that book again.
Some of the best books I’ve read have been books I have borrowed from friends, so it seems only fair to reciprocate.
I now have a shelf dedicated to books that belong to other people, so it’s easy when someone comes over and I can say, ‘Did I borrow any of these from you?’
To loan or not to loan… that is the question.